Why do we need role playing in bed? The answer is quite obvious: erotic role playing helps to diversify our sex life. There is another aspect of the answer to this question; play is our essence. If you remember your childhood, you probably liked playing doctors and patients.
Some psychologists believe that role playing in bed is our subconscious child-mind that finds a way out in the adult world. We grow and change according to the games we play.
First and foremost, every loving couple needs variety in bed. If you bring role-playing to your sexual experience, you can make a fresh impetus to your sex life!
There are three primary motives for sexual playing:
For the sake of entertainment or exercising.
For the relief of psychological stress by trying various roles.
For discovering new faces, new experiences and new opportunities in your partner.
Correctly selected clothing combined with fantasy of the partners and the ability to go into the role will help strengthen mutual attraction and diversify the sex life between partners. Any sexy mini-play is a kind of masquerade with corresponding roles.
What are the main scenarios for sexual playing?
The nature and scenario of the play is usually associated with sexual fantasies. The chosen script can tell much about the relationship between the couple.
Games with subordination: They may have different scenerios. For instance, He is a strict boss and She is his secretary. The first reason for this type is the obvious dominance of one partner in life. In this case, the role-playing game can be a way to swap the places, with the secretary being the one in charge.
Games of seduction: The nurse, a bride, the virgin, an unapproachable nun or “Lolita” type… Those characters need to be seduced, first by mind and then by body. Such games tell that the couple would like to return the novelty of sensations.
Spontaneous games: These are the plays that weren’t planned in advance, but may happen due to the circumstances. Maybe you never dreamed about sex in the train, but if you find yourself alone in the compartment, your fantasy will overwhelm you both.
Playing with food: Strawberries and cream, chocolate cream, a bath with champagne is not only exciting, but also hot and tasty!
Repeat scenarios from movies: These games with ready-made scripts are great for an already outlined scene, especially if it’s a movie you both know and can jump into your roles easily.
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